Is there bullying in homeschooling ?

October 25, 2012 in Benefits of Home Schooling, General Homeschool, Homeschool Newbie

Written By: Christina

I read an interesting article last night called An Unschooled View on Bullying by writer Kate Fridkis. I almost didn’t read it because of the word “unschooled” in the title since I wouldn’t consider us unschoolers, but I was intrigued by the topic of bullying since it’s been on my mind lately.

Is there bullying in homeschooling? And I’m not talking about teasing, which the author readily admits she did. But, as she states, “We were far from perfect. But we were far from cruel. The very overweight girl wasn’t teased for her size. What kind of person would do that?” 

In the six years we’ve been homeschooling, we’ve made a wide range of friends and acquaintances. Sometimes, my kids love the kids they meet, sometimes they would rather not see them again. When we meet a child whose behavior bothers them, we talk about it. This isn’t to say that feelings don’t get hurt: Oh, yes they do. Friendships end and people feel left out of groups—but I wouldn’t call any of this behavior  ”cruel” and I certainly wouldn’t call it bullying.

In our large coop, sometimes the girls form loose little groups that hang around together at lunchtime. I remember my oldest telling me that she prefers to play with the group of 10-12 year olds that likes to run around and play, but there is another group of girls that likes to sit and talk about clothes. That made me laugh since I know she is right on the cusp of moving from one group to the next.

Oh, and there is no question she’ll be able to move from one group to the next when she’s ready. These are not “cliques” as I remember them with their “you can’t sit here/play with us/talk to us” rules.

In the six years we’ve been homeschooling, I’ve never seen bullying in any of our circles.

My oldest daughter begins sixth grade in September—middle school. While talking to a good friend who happens to have a daughter the same age as mine, he said, “Be glad she isn’t going to middle school. If you can keep her out of any grades, keep her out of the middle school.” I know all too well what he means. Middle school, though I was never outright “bullied”, was not a good place for me. It was a much worse place for many others who were teased, picked on, and shunned.

But why don’t homeschooled kids bully? Or do they?

Contrary to what many news articles will try to make you believe, these are all normal kids. They love electronics, they play sports or dance or do gymnastics, they hate to clean their room. Most of them give us a hard time over doing schoolwork. They have friends who go to school and friends who don’t. They attend sleepovers, go to summer camp, get asked to parties, and ask for an iPod Touch (already? sigh).

They are not always under the watchful eye of their parents. Yes, most homeschoolers let their kids out of their sight. And many of these kids have access to email and can chat with each other out of earshot of any grownup.

What makes it different? And what lessons can parents of kids in school learn from this?

I’m not suggesting that everyone quit school and homeschool. It’s definitely not the lifestyle for everyone, nor is it even feasible for most families. And I’m certainly not suggesting that my fellow homeschooling parents have some advanced parenting skills or that we are somehow “doing it better”. Believe me, we don’t know what we’re doing either.

But what is it that makes a confident and well-liked 11 year old say “SURE!” without hesitation or irony to a sweet 9 year old’s request for a sleepover, and not roll her eyes and wonder why this little person thinks it’s okay to talk to an older kid? What is it that makes the kids of the devout Christian homeschooling family AND the radical unschooling family get along without incident in our coop? What is it that makes it unthinkable that any kids in our coop would tease the little boy with Down Syndrome, or  laughingly mimic the child whose speech is often impossible to understand (who happens to be my own son)?

There is nothing “better” about homeschooled kids. They are regular kids with regular fears, problems, insecurities, and preferences. And yet, bullying is just not an issue. Why?

Homeschooling and Special Needs Children

October 24, 2012 in General Homeschool, Tips & Tricks

By Christopher J. Klicka

HSLDA Senior Counsel

I. Introduction

Teaching your child with special needs is a privilege—but it is also hard. It requires from the parents much sacrifice, patience, and unconditional love.

We cannot forget to consider what the child with special needs experiences as well. Living with a handicap such as blindness, cerebral palsy, a speech impediment, autism, retardation, a disease, or one of many types of learning disabilities is difficult. It is a daily struggle emotionally, mentally, and many times physically. The child’s self-esteem is constantly put to the test. Some handicaps or learning disabilities can be overcome with consistent and focused effort. Other handicaps can only be managed and may never go away.

Living with multiple sclerosis these last few years has helped me appreciate the struggles of a physically handicapped person. Every day it is hard for me to simply walk, put my socks on, or stay in 80-degree weather for any length of time. The emotional drain is intense. The need to think and plan for logistics to achieve normal movement is a heavy burden. The quality of life from a human perspective is diminished. Hiking in the woods or camping is too hard, going to the beach is incapacitating, and participating in most sports that I love is out of the question.

Personal attention and love by my family is more important to me than ever before. I know a child with special needs truly needs this extra support and reassurance. Homeschooling your special needs child makes that intense, loving support possible.

We have seven children, including a set of twins who were supposed to have died in the womb. Yet God answered our desperate prayers in a miraculous way. Amy, whose head was caved in, spine twisted, and was not hooked up right, completely recovered in the womb and was born alive at 2 lbs. 13 ounces. Although Amy was miraculously delivered, she was mentally much slower than her twin sister, Charity. At 6 years old, Amy was not ready to read like her sister and required much more time, attention, and love. Sending her to an institutional school would have devastated her fragile self-confidence. Teachers could not possibly give her the one-on-one attention and love she needed.

In light of these experiences, I am convinced that homeschooling children with special needs is the most effective way to successfully teach them and is the ideal environment in which they will learn and thrive.

II. Parents Excel in Teaching Their Special Needs Children

Objective studies demonstrate that parents are providing a superior form of education for their special needs children by teaching them at home. Contrary to the claims of the education elite, parents do not have to be specially certified or have special qualifications to teach their handicapped children at home.

In fact, in one of the most thorough studies performed thus far on the subject, Dr. Steven Duvall conducted a year-long study involving eight elementary and two junior high students with learning disabilities. He compared one group of five students that received instruction at home with a group of five students who attended public schools. He was careful to match the public school students to the homeschool students according to grade level, sex, IQ, and area of disability. Using a laptop computer, Dr. Duvall sat in on teaching sessions and took an observation every 20 seconds, creating tens of thousands of data points that were then fed into a statistical analysis package. Normally his research included a second observer who double-checked Dr. Duvall’s readings.

Dr. Duvall recorded and analyzed academically engaged time by students during instructional periods. He also administered standardized achievement tests to them to measure gains in reading, math and written language. His results show that the homeschooled, special needs students were academically engaged about two-and-one-half times as often as public school special needs students! He found the children in the public school special education classrooms spent 74.9 percent of their time with no academic responses, while the homeschool children only spent 40.7 percent of their time with no academic responses. He also found that homeschools have children and teachers sitting side-by-side or face-to-face 43 percent of the time, while public education classrooms had such an arrangement for special needs children only 6 percent of the time. This was a tremendous advantage for the homeschoolers.

His study further demonstrated that the homeschool students averaged six months’ gain in reading compared to only a one-half month gain by the special public school students. Furthermore, the homeschool special needs students during the year gained eight months in written language skills compared to the public school counterparts who gained only two-and-one-half months.

Dr. Duvall summarized, “These results clearly indicate that parents, even though they are not certified teachers, can create instructional environments at home that assist students with learning disabilities to improve their academic skills. This study clearly shows that home schooling is beneficial for special needs students.” 1

It is interesting to note that Thomas Edison was expelled from public school at age 7 because he was considered “addled” by his public school teacher. He lasted only three months in formal schooling. Over the next three years, his mother taught him the basics at home, and as Edison himself stated, “She instilled in me the love and purpose of learning.” 2 Without any special qualifications, Mrs. Edison helped her son overcome his disabilities to be come a great inventor.

Once again we see homeschooling works for any child!

III. The Home Is the Ideal Environment for Special Needs Children

All children need to know they are loved. For children with special needs it is even more important. Homeschooling gives special needs children teachers (the parents) who truly love them and intimately know their weaknesses and strengths. This gives parents a tremendous advantage in delivering an effective education program to their children.

Homeschooling also gives the parents an opportunity to teach what really matters. Having a handicap, as I have said, is a daily struggle. A handicapped child is constantly aware of his weakness and inability and this can often regularly lead to feelings of worthlessness and inadequacy. In homeschooling, parents can spend much time teaching their special needs child that they were created in the image of God. They have worth and value because God loves them. Their struggles and difficulties have purpose in glorifying God and being conformed more into the image of His Son.

They can learn, “not to lose heart. Though our outward man is decaying, our inward man is being renewed day by day. For this momentary, light affliction is producing for us an eternal weight of glory far beyond all comparison, while we look not at the things which are seen but at the things which are seen; for the things which are seen are temporal, but the things which are not seen are eternal.” II Corinthians 4:16-18. If they accept Jesus as their Savior and believe He died on the cross for their sins and rose again, they will be healed one day in heaven, if not before.

Weakness and disability reminds us of our mortality and our great need for a Savior. The spiritual object lessons to be drawn from our children’s handicaps are endless and of eternal value to them and the whole family. I can truly say my multiple sclerosis and Amy’s limitations are blessings that are reaping tremendous spiritual growth. God is teaching us to walk by faith not sight. (II Corinthians 5:7).

IV. Can I Legally Home School My Special Needs Child and What Are My Rights?

Since 1983, The Home School Legal Defense Association has worked to win and protect all parents’ rights to teach all their children at home, including special needs children. When HSLDA started, homeschooling was clearly legal in approximately five states. It is now legal in all 50 states. Even though homeschooled special needs children are being legally well-educated by their parents, they often are still faced with legal challenges.

While some public school authorities are supportive, and occasionally even accommodating of homeschoolers, others do not share their enthusiasm. Those opposed to homeschooling find it difficult to question homeschoolers with average or above-average students, so they sometimes turn to harassing the handicapped or special needs homeschool children. Going after handicapped children that are homeschooled is somewhat easier since it is harder for the family to prove educational progress. It is also easier to intimidate the families into thinking they are not qualified. Of course, the incentive is greater also, since special needs children are worth nearly twice as much in state and federal tax dollars that will be sent to the local school district.

As a result, homeschool families with special needs or handicapped childten may be harassed and restricted more than other homeschool families. As a result of this discriminatory treatment, many homeschoolers with special needs children begin to think they have fewer parental rights than everyone else. Constitutionally, this could not be further from the truth.

Parents with special needs children are protected by the same Constitution as all other parents. Therefore, they, too, have the protection of the First and Fourteenth Amendments.

For example, an HSLDA member family in Colorado had enrolled their child in special needs classes in the local public school. Eventually, their child stopped learning due to a negative classroom environment. Concluding they could do a better job themselves, the parents notified the school district that they had decided to homeschool. Although it was legal to homeschool in the state, the local school district would not disenroll the child. The district felt the child’s Individual Education Plan (IEP) recommendation could not be fulfilled by a mere mother. It called the family nearly every week, trying to pressure them back in for more meetings and more conferences with the public school’s specialists. The mother could barely stand the intimidation and began to doubt herself. When the family called HSLDA, I stepped in and was able to convince the school district to recognize the mother’s right to homeschool privately.

In Illinois, a family disenrolled their child from all special needs programs except speech therapy. Over and over again the school district tried to pressure the family to come into various meetings in which the child would be evaluated and recommendations given. The school district believed the parents were not qualified to provide instruction. Finally, the school district initiated a due process proceeding pursuant to the “Individuals with Disabilities Education Act” or “IDEA,” because they believed that receiving speech therapy services put the family under the act’s jurisdiction. The family contacted HSLDA,followed my advice and withdrew their child from speech therapy and provided a written statement to the school district breaking all ties. After we further negotiated with the school district, the family was finally left alone.

In Indiana, a couple who educated nine adopted handicapped children was harassed repeatedly by school officials. Scores of other families in there area were homeschooling, but this family was singled out because all the children had special needs.

I can recount numerous personal experiences I have had defending handicapped children who are harassed only because they are being homeschooling. In every instance, HSLDA attorneys resolved the situations, and the parents were able to do a better job because they cared about their children and best understood their special needs.

V. How Can I Get Help To Teach My Child With Special Needs?

There are two basic options homeschoolers can choose to receive help: private special needs resources or resources from the public schools through the federal IDEA program. Of course, some homeschoolers could do a combination of them both.

Parents also have the right to opt out of the initial evaluation, if they so desire. This right was explicitly recognized by a 2006 modification of the regulation (34 CFR 300.300(d)(4)), which resulted from HSLDA’s victory in the case Fitzgerald v. Camdenton R-III School District(2006)3, where the court ruled that a school district did not have the right to override a parent’s desire to not participate.

In the meantime, certain states have passed regulations allowing homeschoolers to receive special education services (a state-by-state summary is available). Also, if a homeschooler is in a state that recognizes homeschools as private schools, the homeschoolers may be able to obtain assistance.

However, parents should consider the possible side effect of loss of freedom when taking government special needs services. A common adage, that government controls nearly always follow government money, often rings true with homeschoolers who receive public school services for their special needs children. Many times the controls are not immediately visible but they usually surface as soon as the parents begin to disagree with the public school authorities’ recommendations for new therapy or a different educational approach.

At the very least, homeschoolers who receive public school services for their special needs children, place themselves under the jurisdiction of the federal IDEA and local state regulations which implement that act. Some types of problems homeschoolers encounter are described above.

The intent of IDEA is to provide statutory guidelines for local public schools to make available a free public education to the handicapped. The act is not a compulsory attendance statute for handicapped children. It is clearly apparent, therefore, that parents who do not want to take advantage of a free public education for their handicapped child, are not mandated to do so. Such a mandate would also violate the parents’ fundamental right to direct the education of their children, as guaranteed under Pierce v. Society of Sisters.4 In the Pierce case, the U.S. Supreme Court declared parents have the right to choose a private educational program for their children, and, as a result, the Court struck down an Oregon law that mandated only public school attendance. Parents of special needs children are not required to use any public educational services. Choosing to privately educate their special needs child is the parents’ right. By doing so, they avoid the state’s controls pursuant to the IDEA.

VI. Conclusion: Homeschooling Works

Privately homeschooling special needs students carries the least risk for government intervention. A parent who chooses to work with the public schools should be cautious for the reasons discussed above. Homeschoolers should also carefully watch their legislatures in order to oppose any attempts to create excessive regulations for handicapped children being home schooled. All homeschoolers need to stand together to protect special needs homeschoolers from being separately and excessively regulated.

Homeschooling special needs children takes a tremendous effort on behalf of parents. HSLDA receives regular reports of the consistent success that these parents are achieving, oftentimes far beyond the progress the special needs child made in the public school. One of the major reasons for success seems to be the fact that parents know their children best and, therefore, can best meet the needs of their handicapped child.

Endnotes

1Dr. Steven Duvall, The Impact of Home Education on Learning Disabled Children: A Look at New Research, August 1994, presented to the Home School Legal Defense Association, Purcellville, VA.

2Christopher Klicka, Home Schooling: The Right Choice, (Twin Sisters, OR: Loyal Publishing, 2000), p. 168.

3Fitzgerald v. Camdenton R-III School District, 439 F. 3d 773, 206 L. Ed. Rep. 837, C.A. 8 (Mo) March 01, 2006 (No. 04-3102)

4268 U.S.510 (1925) [Also see Meyer v. Nebraska, 262 U.S.390 (1923) and Wisconsin v. Yoder, 406 U.S.205 (1972)].

Best (worst) arguments against Homeschooling

October 22, 2012 in General Homeschool

In the 2 years we’ve been homeschooling our children, we’ve come across some really bad arguments on why homeschooling children is a bad idea. Below you will see some of them, and my answers to them when people present them to me.

1. I can’t believe you homeschool your kids! The only people who homeschool their kids, are people who beat them and don’t want teachers to turn them in!
So what you’re saying is, that only teachers turn in abused children, and not doctors, random strangers, or other parents?

2. You’re child is going to be socially awkward if you homeschool. Children get to socialize and learn how to communicate to their peers in school through socialization
I always thought school was meant to learn, and not to socialize. Growing up, we were always told to be quiet during class, and not to pass notes, talk to our ‘neighbor’, or anything like that. While socialization is essential in growing up, our children get their socialization through extra curricular activities such as violin, dance, and homeschool groups

3. How do you know if your child is learning anything when you’re teaching them?
How do YOU know if your child is learning anything when you’re NOT the one teaching them? With homeschooling, we know exactly what are children are learning, and we don’t leave our children behind in the dark when they don’t understand something

4. {defensively}But public schooling is cheaper than homeschooling, so are you saying that only rich people can homeschool?
Not at all, homeschooling can become expensive, but there are more ways to homeschool your child than to stick to an expensive curriculum. You can take your child on more field trips, even some of them are completely free! On those field trips you can spend more time on anything you see, instead of being rushed through like public school field trips do

5. Our school system has the “leave no child behind” policy, where they won’t hold back any child, and every child can walk across the stage with their peers, but homeschooling does do that!
So even if your child doesn’t understand everything that the state requires you to know to graduate, they still get rewarded by walking across the stage because now the school system doesn’t care enough to ensure all students are properly educated, and ready for the real world? How is that better than homeschooling, where my child can take as long as they need to on a particular subject?

6. Our child is in public school and he’s on the honor roll. Because the school recognizes him as being on the honor roll, he has something to be proud of, and helps his self-esteem.
Your child is on the honor roll? That’s awesome! It really is! But I’m curious, how does it help his self-esteem?
Well, he gets to show off to his friends and family which makes him more confident
Ahh I get it, so your kid learns that bragging, and making his friends and family feel more insecure about their own grades, and essentially becoming a mentally abusive (while not being outgoing) bully.

The list goes on and on, but those are the ones that pop out as the worst arguments that have been presented to us.

If you have any questions, or would like some advice, please don’t hesitate to contact us by e-mailing us questions@bc-hs.com

Graduation — Different Paths, Same Result

October 22, 2012 in General Homeschool

Source:  Coloradoeducation
By:  Liese Carberry
June 13, 2012
It’s that time of year again when high school kids all over the country are marching down aisles in caps and gowns in celebration of finishing a goal. Homeschool parents have the added bonus of saying, ‘I’m proud of the graduate I taught.’

The one exclusive sign of thorough knowledge is the power of teaching. -Aristotle

People should be free to find or make for themselves the kinds of educational experience they want their children to have. -John Holt

I can now say that I have a graduate—actually he finished up in December, but the diploma will be handed out in a ceremony. His education was a mix of unschooling, homeschooling, and virtual schooling.

Since we can’t know what knowledge will be most needed in the future, it is senseless to try to teach it in advance. Instead, we should try to turn out people who love learning so much and learn so well that they will be able to learn whatever needs to be learned. -John Holt

We used canned curriculum, workbooks, living books, hands-on methods, visual-spatial methods, Civil Air Patrol, community college and computer curriculum to accomplish the goal of ‘finishing school.’ We didn’t take just one path, we branched out to find what worked for us.

Joel had a wonderful graduation ceremony. The speaker talked about whether the kids thought they had traveled a school path of a real 14′er or a flat 14′er.

I should explain.

A fourteener is a mountain with a peak of at least 14,000 feet. James and Joel climbed Mt. Evans, just one of the many fourteeners in Colorado. It is arduous, your body aches, you make it to a point where you want to turn around and you wonder why you did this in the first place. Then, you persevere and continue and eventually reach the summit – you get to the goal. A flat fourteener is Colorado’s attempt to get people to be physically active by counting their steps and logging them into a site to climb a virtual mountain. Of course, there is no comparison between the two, it’s harder to climb an actual mountain.

The speaker’s point was to ask the class of 2012 if they felt they had reached the graduation goal by way of virtual school and if that was the same as a virtual 14′er. They all replied ‘No!’ It was hard, they were responsible for their education, they had to be on top of classes, make a schedule and stick to it, make goals and reach those goals. The educational platform may have come in the form of a virtual school, but the path traveled was as hard as any ‘real’ school. Of course, being homeschoolers, we are always talking about lifelong learning and the love of learning. One does not stop gaining information just because someone says you are ‘through’ and that you attained a specific set of goals.

A man has to have goals – for a day, for a lifetime…-Ted Williams

Joel did not slouch around this semester even though he was through with grade 12 in school. He worked on flying and on May 23rd attained his private pilot’s license. I hope that what I am giving my children is not just 12 years of education, but the ability to set goals and reach them, the ability to chase after a dream, the love of learning something new and being able to use that new found knowledge in their lives.

Education is not the filling of a pail, but the lighting of a fire. -William Butler Yeats

Crystallize your goals. Make a plan for achieving them and set yourself a deadline. Then, with supreme confidence, determination and disregard for obstacles and other people’s criticisms, carry out your plan. -Paul J. Meyer

Graduation is definitely a huge accomplishment, but it is not the end of the road in learning. To all those who have made it to the finish line, congratulations! But, never stop setting new goals and reaching them, never stop learning and never accept that you are done with education – there is always something new to learn.

An investment in knowledge pays the best interest. -Benjamin Franklin

Homeschool Or Public School?

October 19, 2012 in Benefits of Home Schooling, Homeschool Newbie, Money, Tips & Tricks

It’s an election year and that will likely mean a lot of talk about the American education system. Politicians will surely talk about the fact that America’s schools are only ranked “average” compared to the rest of the world, and that includes ranking No. 35 in math and No. 29 in science. For parents making key choices about the future of their children, these statistics don’t make public schools look attractive, but is homeschooling a better option? Private schools may cost more than a family can afford, and homeschooling requires a parent that doesn’t work. If you’re looking for the best way to educate your child, and one parent can stay at home, should you consider homeschooling?

Public School
Public schools, despite all of their bad press, are still the most popular way to educate a child. Like most services consumers deal with in their daily lives, there are outstanding public schools and those that receive a failing grade. Students attend school for the primary purpose of learning and that’s what any school should be judged on most heavily. Looking at the average performance of the nation’s public schools, they don’t appear to be providing an A+ service, but comparing a public school to the other options isn’t entirely fair.

Public schools are charged with educating all students and may have class sizes of 25 or more students. Homeschooling is only as high as the school age children in the home, but that doesn’t mean that public schools are in desperate need of help. Even those who believe strongly in public schools concede that a lot of work remains to bring America’s schools up to levels that will allow the schools to compete on the international stage.

However, public schools offer more than academics. Homeschooling doesn’t offer the same opportunities in the arts, athletics and other activities that students get in public schools. A study in Chicago found that students who participate in the arts achieved higher test scores than those who did not. Although these types of classes and activities are offered in the private and homeschooling environments, they aren’t offered at the same level of many public schools.

Homeschooling
There’s no doubt that research speaks very kindly of homeschooling. Not only is it cheap compared to other education options, but the results are generally better. Most parents who homeschool spend less than $600 per year compared to the $10,000 average spent per pupil by public school systems. However, parents who homeschool are still paying a portion of that $10,000 expense. Surprisingly, spending such a low amount on a child’s education produces impressive results. One study found that the average homeschooled student outperformed the average public school student by roughly 30 percentile points.

The largest drawback mentioned by opponents of homeschooling is that kids are lacking in socialization once they enter college, but studies have found that in all markers of social and psychological health homeschoolers are no less socialized than other children. Just like public schools, the quality of the homeschooling experience depends on the drive and motivation of the teacher. It takes a disciplined, motivated and intelligent person to homeschool his or her child.

The Bottom Line
Just as private schools require money, homeschooling requires a family that can invest the amount of time needed to homeschool effectively. For those families with a parent that doesn’t work, studies appear to indicate that homeschooling produces impressive results when compared to public schools. However, public schools might be more appropriate for children who want to take more advanced coursework or for those who are gifted in athletics or the arts.

How to Avoid Homeschool Burnout

October 18, 2012 in Homeschool Newbie, Tips & Tricks

We spent some time with several veteran homeschool speakers this weekend, and there is a troubling trend they are seeing—moms who are just burned out on homeschooling. You’re saying, Well, that’s nothing new. But they are seeing this burnout in moms who have not been homeschooling that long. The most common connection between these homeschooling moms appears to be a highly structured homeschool curriculum or program.

First, let me say I don’t favor any method of homeschooling over another, but my bias is to try to develop a program that fosters a love for learning. Greg Harris, who is one of the leading pioneers and speakers in the homeschool community, has a term for the kind of education I’m talking about—he calls it “delight-directed education.” This style of homeschooling is directed at getting students interested in learning.

Not only will students involved in delight-directed education learn more, but there will also be less pressure on mom. She won’t have to badger her children to learn and will spend less time in direct instruction because the children will be learning more on their own. Every family should figure out what’s best for them and how much structure is best.

I’m concerned that we are seeing moms give up because they can’t see how they can continue year after year with the time and energy they are devoting to teaching. When I recognize this problem, my advice is, Take an approach that doesn’t look like a school.

The people who introduced my wife Elizabeth and me to homeschooling were Dr. Raymond and Dorothy Moore. They emphasized not bringing the classroom into the home. Learning was to be much more informal. We found this approach very helpful in our homeschool.

I also remind moms that we need to recognize that our ultimate goal is not to prepare a child for Harvard but for heaven. Character over academics.

In summary, I’m not saying that you should avoid a rigorous academic program with your students. Just don’t pursue it to the point of jeopardizing your ultimate goals. And keep those goals clearly in sight—graduating your children with far more than merely an accumulation of knowledge, encouraging them to grow into adults with a love for learning, a love for God, and a love for others.

If you’re feeling burned out, change course, relax, and make learning fun for all—including you!

Family Passes 30,000 Miles Homeschooling In RV

October 17, 2012 in Benefits of Home Schooling, Mobile Homeschooling

A family crossed 15 states from Maine down to Florida and across to Texas in a motorhome, turning homeschooling into roadschooling. This family of four, along with their dog, had geared up for the remaining 35 states.

While homeschooling their two sons, they had camped in 15 different states and traveled a total of 30,603 miles. That was the combined mileage between the motorhome and their tow vehicle which they used for the local trips. Then they decided to travel all the way up to Alaska in their RV.

The first leg of their journey took them from Florida to Maine and back for the Christmas holidays. Then they began their westward journey and are now in Texas. The distance traveled in the RV from campground to campground is 13,696 miles. Then once they have setup camp, the Gregorich’s went exploring the area in their Chevy Blazer which they pull behind the RV. They had put 16,907 miles on their Blazer while exploring the areas around the campground and visiting the different sites.

The Gregorich family began their American RV adventure back in Orlando, Florida on September 28th, 2005. Mark and Cricket sold their house and almost all their belongings last year after purchasing their 36 foot 2005 National Sea Breeze motorhome so they could travel across the United States. They had already been homeschooling their two sons, now in the third and fifth grades, for two years. Then after a career move by Cricket allowed her to stay home as well, they decided to buy the RV and go on the road.

“It has been a great experience,” said Mark. “Even the kids are getting an education without having to do school work.”

This wasn’t an extra long extended summer vacation for the boys. The two boys still had to do their regular 3rd and 5th grade homeschool curriculum through the Alpha-Omega Switched-On Schoolhouse software which generally took them 2-4 hours each day to complete. And they also received hands-on education by visiting the different historical landmarks along the way.

“We studied the American Revolution while in Boston and learned about the Civil War in Gettysburg,” said Cricket. “They even learned of the assassination of JFK from the Sixth Floor Museum in Dallas.”

The Gregorich’s also made it a point to visit every state capital when they traveled. They even sat in the gallery and listened to some actual state legislators debating issues.

Where did they go from there? Their goal was to visit all 50 states before the end of 2006. To see where they went in their “American RV Homeschooling Adventure”, you can visit their website at www.awaywego.us. There you’ll find lots of photos and stories of their activities. They even have a message board where you can say hi and ask questions about their trips!

Homeschooling High School

October 16, 2012 in Benefits of Home Schooling, Studies, Tips & Tricks

HOMESCHOOLING HIGH SCHOOL STUDENTS ISN’T EASY!

High school students are faced with a myriad of decisions from what course of study to follow to what college to attend. One of those decisions includes what standardized test to take.

Initially, students should take whichever test is required by the college they wish to attend. However, taking each test can be beneficial but most students don’t know the difference between the two tests.

Just as an additional fyi point, I am having my children take the tests several times. This will give them more confidence, and will help them obtain a better score in the long run. Since we are a homeschool family their college admission will rely heavily on these tests.

A BREAK DOWN OF ACT AND SAT TESTING

To break it down, the ACT test includes the following.

25% reading

25% English

25% math

25% science/reasoning

The ACT does not have a required essay section.

So, if your high schooler struggles with writing this may be the test to take. Though it includes science, it presents facts and concepts and then requires students to make logical conclusions.

The SAT is presented a little differently and consists of:

50% reading

25% math

25% essay section

The SAT does not include a science module, which might be the choice for students who don’t care for science. However, the essay section requires a great deal of thought. If you plan on using the SAT make sure to plan plenty of time for essay preparation.

12 Secrets to Scheduling Success

October 15, 2012 in Tips & Tricks

You’ll soon discover that because God created each family unique, there is no perfect one-answer-fits-all homeschooling schedule. However, many experienced homeschool parents have learned these helpful secrets to make scheduling a homeschooling day easier:

1. Strive to start school at the same time each day and don’t set yourself up for failure with too many activities and unrealistic expectations.

2. Turn off your TV and phone when you start homeschooling and don’t return calls until lessons are done — no matter what!

3. Save more intense, one-on-one instruction time with older children while little ones are napping or ask relatives and friends to watch your toddlers.

4. Schedule math and language arts (reading, writing, spelling) earlier in the day when your children are still fresh. Save more time-consuming, hands-on projects (history, science, art) until the afternoon.

5. Coordinate individualized teaching with one child while the other children work independently or read. For instance, when presenting a new math concept to your 3rd grader, have your 7th grader read his history lesson for the day on his own. Also, take advantage of unit studies which make scheduling easier when homeschooling multiple children in different grade levels.

6. Evaluate your family and be flexible to adjust your schedule as you see a pattern that works best. Realize that your children learn better with schedules and feel safer and more in control when they know what to expect each day.

7. Decide what household chores need to be done each day and assign responsibilities to each child. You can then schedule 30 – 45 minutes twice a day for tidying the house and/or doing tasks. Chore charts with reward stickers are a great way to encourage younger children to complete their work.

8. Make a list of outside activities (errands, medical/dental appointments, field trips, homeschool co-op groups, music lessons, library visits, etc.) that your family will participate in that week and include them on your calendar.

9. Assign a time and/or day of the week for each individual subject, including start and end times. (Be sure to include core subject areas like math, history and geography, language arts, and science.)

10. Schedule time for daily meal preparation and clean up, along with time for any other breaks.

11. Don’t compare your family to other homeschooling families; it will only make you feel frustrated, dissatisfied, or guilty. Schedules are meant to help your family accomplish your goals, not the goals of someone else.

12. Keep moving and don’t lose your focus. Even if interruptions and distractions cause your lesson plans to fall apart before 9:00 a.m., regroup and accomplish what you can for the remainder of the day.

Remember, many states have homeschooling laws that require a certain number of hours or days of homeschooling each year. Be sure that your schedule meets those requirements, recognizing that many activities and hobbies your children enjoy outside of “official” schooling hours can also be considered homeschooling, such as part-time jobs (work study), volunteer work (civics), and sports (physical education).

7 tips to better organization for your homeschool

October 12, 2012 in Tips & Tricks

Organization is an important part of homeschooling. It is a good idea to keep records of everything you do for your schooling, whether you home school or UN-school. Record-keeping is a high priority if you want your child to go onto college. There are many ways to organize your home school. Here is a list that will help you to begin some organization of your school.

  1. Filing cabinet – A filing cabinet is a great accessory for your school. It is a wonderful way to store important papers, or papers you may download and print off of the web. There are many great resources on the internet that you can download and use for your school.
  2. Bins – Bins work really well also in separating papers. You can have a bin for each child to pick up their paperwork for the day and then a separate one for them to put the paper after they finish. Bins are also a great place to put art supplies, educational tools, educational toys or even books. To make it easy for the child is labeling, label all of your bins, putting a picture on the bins is a wonderful tool for your younger learners. This way they see the word next to the picture which also helps in learning to read.
  3. Shelves – If you do not have a lot of room in your home to store all of the items you will need to home school, shelves make a great way to save space. It is a good idea to keep your reading books on a lower shelf where they are accessible, that way if the child wants to read a book it gives them the option to pick out what book they would like to read. It is a terrific way to start your own home library. Then on the next shelf up, place your bins.
  4. Baskets – Baskets are also nice to have to organize your curriculum. You can place in each basket a different subject you may be working on. Such as; science, you may put all of your research material for one subject in each basket.
  5. Desk or Table – Not all homes are large enough to accommodate a desk so a small table is a way you can place things on it while the child is doing their school work, such as extra pencils, paperclips, erasers and things like that.
  6. Walls – Use your walls to accommodate your school. For instance, if you are studying geography, hang a map on the wall. You can also use it as a chalkboard or white board. At Walmart or even craft stores you can buy canned spray paint and make your own chalkboard. The neat thing is, you can spray a small table and even have a chalkboard table.
  7. Shoe boxes – Shoe boxes or small boxes are also an inexpensive way to store things such as pencils, markers, crayons or even a ruler. You can turn your shoe boxes into an art craft for your child by letting them decorate it before putting it on the shelf.
Getting organized will help your school year go much smoother and it will alleviate a lot of stress down the road. So get organized and have a great school year.